“shoher Ke Huqooq Islam Ki Roshni Mein Qurani Ayaat Aur Ahadith Ke Zariye Pyar Bhari Tafseel”
Muqadma :
Aaj ke dor mein hum sab apne apne huqooq par bohot baat karte hain. Lekin jab baat doosron ke huqooq ada karne ki hoti hai to kahin na kahin dil halka sa chhup jata hai.
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| Shoher se hi gher mokammal hota he |
Islam ka nizaam is silsile mein bohot khoobsurat aur mutawazan hai yeh sirf aurton ya mardon ke haq mein nahi, balkeh har shakhs ke liye adl o insaf ka paighaam hai.
Shoher jo ke ek ghar ka sarbara hota hai, Allah Ta’ala ne us ko sirf taqat ka maqam nahi diya, balkeh zimmedari ka bojh aur izzat ka rutba bhi diya hai.
Aaj hum pyar bhare lafzon mein, Qur’an aur Hadith ki roshni mein, samjhenge ke Allah Ta’ala ne mard ke kaun kaun se huqooq banaye hain, jo har mo’min aurat ke liye izzat aur ajar ka baais hain .
1. Shoher Ka Maqam Qur’an Ki Nazar Mein.
Qur’an-e-Pak ne mard ko “qawwam” ka maqam diya hai, yani ghar ka sarparast, dekh bhaal karne wala, zimmedari uthane wala.
ٱلرِّجَالُ قَوَّٰمُونَ عَلَى ٱلنِّسَآءِ
“Mard aurton ke qawwam matlab sarparast, zimmedar hain.” (Surah An-Nisa: 34)
Yahan “qawwam” ka matlab hai woh shakhs jo apne ghar walon ke kharch, hifazat, aur tarbiyat ki zimmedari uthata hai.
Yeh maqam kisi zordari ya jabri hukoomat ka nishan nahi, balkeh ek mehfooz panah aur zimmedari ka paighaam hai.
Jis tarah ek baap bachon ke liye chhat ban kar khada hota hai, usi tarah mard ko ghar mein Allah ne chhat ka darja diya.
Aur jab Allah kisi ko maqam deta hai, to sath us ke huqooq bhi rakhta hai jo ada karna ek nek aurat ke liye izzat aur sawab ka zariya banta hai.
2. Nikah Ke Baad Shohar Ka Haq
Nikah ke baad, Islam ne shohr ko biwi par kuch aise huqooq diye hain jo us rishtay ko mazbooti, muhabbat aur sakoon dete hain.
Shohar ka sabse pehla haq hai ke biwi us ka sath aur wafadari kare, us ke ghar aur izzat ki hifazat kare.
Allah Ta’ala farmata hai:
فَٱلصَّٰلِحَٰتُ قَٰنِتَٰتٌ حَٰفِظَٰتٌ لِّلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ ٱللَّهُ
“Saleh auratein woh hoti hain jo shohr ke samne farmanbardar hoti hain aur shohr ki gair haazri mein Allah ki hifazat ke sath us ki amanat ki hifazat karti hain.” (Surah An-Nisa: 34)
Yeh ayat humein yeh samjha rahi hai ke shohr ka haq sirf zaban ya formal rishtay tak nahi, balki dil ki wafadari aur amanatdari tak hai.
Ek mo’mina aurat ke liye yeh farz sirf shohr ki khushi nahi, balkeh Allah ki raza ka zariya hai.
3. Shohar Ki Ita‘at Ka Maqam
Islam mein shohr ki itaat aur us ki baat ko izzat dena, ek mo’mina aurat ke liye sirf dunia ka nizam chalana nahi, balkeh akhirat mein jannat ka zariya hai. Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ:
«إِذَا صَلَّتِ الْمَرْأَةُ خَمْسَهَا، وَصَامَتْ شَهْرَهَا، وَحَصَنَتْ فَرْجَهَا، وَأَطَاعَتْ زَوْجَهَا، قِيلَ لَهَا: ادْخُلِي الْجَنَّةَ مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ شِئْتِ»
(Musnad Ahmad)
“Jab koi aurat apne paanch waqt ki namaz padhti hai, Ramzan ke roze rakhti hai, apni paak daamani ki hifazat karti hai.
aur apne shohr ki itaat karti hai to us se kaha jata hai.Jannat ke jis bhi darwazay se chaho dakhil ho jao.”
SubhanAllah! Dekhiye Allah ne kis pyar bhare andaaz mein shohr ki itaat ko sirf ek rishtay ki zabardasti nahi, Jannat ka darwaza bana diya hai.
4. Shohar Ka Nafaqa Ka Haq
Islam ne shohr ko ye haq diya hai ke biwi us se nafaqa (kharcha) ka mohtaj na ho, balki shohr us ka zimmedar ho.
Is ka matlab ye bhi hai ke biwi ko shohr ke maal ka ehtiram karna chahiye, beja israf ya nafarmani nahi karni chahiye.
Allah Ta’ala farmata hai:
الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ... وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ
“Mard is liye aurton ke qawwam hain ke Allah ne un mein se baaz ko doosron par fazeelat di hai aur is liye bhi ke woh apne maal se kharch karte hain.” (Surah An-Nisa: 34)
Yani ghar chalana, zarooraton ko poora karna, ye sab mard ki zimmedari hai. Isi wajah se Allah ne mard ko kuch maqam diye hain.
Aur jab mard ye zimmedari nibha raha ho, to biwi ka bhi farz hai ke us ke maal, waqt aur koshish ki qadar kare.
5. Shohar Ki Izzat Aur Adab Ka Haq
Ek aur bohot aham haq shohr ko izzat aur adab dena hai. Ghar mein shohr ki beizzati ya us ki baat ko halka lena, sirf us ka dil nahi dukhata, balkeh Allah ko bhi nagawar hai.
Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
لَا يَنْظُرُ اللَّهُ إِلَى امْرَأَةٍ لَا تَشْكُرُ لِزَوْجِهَا، وَهِيَ لَا تَسْتَغْنِي عَنْهُ
“Allah us aurat ki taraf nazar e karam nahi farmata jo apne shohr ka shukar ada nahi karti jab ke woh us se be niyaz nahi hoti.” (Nasai)
Shohr ki izzat karna sirf samajik zaroorat nahi, balki imaan aur shukar ka hissa hai. Jab aurat apne shohr ki izzat karti hai, to asal mein woh Allah ke hukm ki izzat kar rahi hoti hai.
6. In Huqooq Ko Ada Karne Ka Ajr
Yeh sab huqooq ada karna kisi aurat ke liye bojh nahi, balkeh Allah ki raza aur akhirat ke ajr ka zariya hai.
Jo aurat apne shohr ke huqooq ko pyar, ikhlaq aur khuloos se ada karti hai, Allah Ta’ala us ke liye jannat ke darwazay khol deta hai.
Nateeja :
Islam ka nizaam kisi ek jins ko doosre par thopne ka nizaam nahi balkeh mohabbat, izzat aur insaf ka nizaam hai.
Mard ke huqooq ko samajhna aur unhein pyar se ada karna, ek mo’mina aurat ka farz bhi hai aur fakhar bhi.
Jis ghar mein mard apni zimmedari nibha raha ho, aurat apne shohr ka ehtiram aur haqooq ada kar rahi ho…
us ghar mein sirf sukoon nahi, rehmat aur barakat bhi nazil hoti hai. Aise ghar duniya mein jannat ka hissa ban jaate hain 🌸✨
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